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In 2008, 2009 & 2012, she knew something was wrong
All I knew was she was my little mommy and after years of struggle, she deserved the best of everything, even if that meant 11 pairs of the exact same…
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Jodi Sh. Doff
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Does Frustration + Sleep Deprivation = Shaken Baby / Elder Abuse?
Shaken baby. Elder Abuse. It’s not physically hard to kill someone less powerful than you, and so easy to be driven to that when you're overwhelmed or…
Jan 7
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Jodi Sh. Doff
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Does Frustration + Sleep Deprivation = Shaken Baby / Elder Abuse?
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December 2024
Introducing: The Dirtygirl Diaries & NYC in the 70s & 80s
A new Substack publication. A coming of age memoir in a city on the verge of bankruptcy, the search for truth, love & family in the go-go bars of Times…
Dec 31, 2024
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Jodi Sh. Doff
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Introducing: The Dirtygirl Diaries & NYC in the 70s & 80s
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The Good Blood, Part 2
Sometimes, the pain of living outweighs the fear of dying. You have the right to decide how much to fight, how long, under what conditions. But you…
Dec 30, 2024
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Jodi Sh. Doff
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Help create an online chat space for us
A private space for us to talk, vent, commiserate, brainstorm, share troubles and resources. You know, to connect about all things caregiving and…
Dec 23, 2024
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Jodi Sh. Doff
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The Bloods, Part I
Mom’s blood test results came back. Compared to me, her aide, & her doctor, she was the healthiest person in the room. You know, except for the…
Dec 23, 2024
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Jodi Sh. Doff
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Parenting a 94-year-old Toddler
At 30 years old, I was drunk, a danger to all living things. An unfit candidate for mommyhood, I had my tubes tied. The universe, with its dark and…
Dec 17, 2024
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Jodi Sh. Doff
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Parenting a 94-year-old Toddler
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Recipes & Soundtrack
Easy, healthy pureed meals she loves, and the music that keeps things moving, or calms things down.
Dec 15, 2024
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Jodi Sh. Doff
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Fear Didn't Get in the Way of Her Fun
When Mom helped us break into an abandoned military installation. To some people, nothing sounds like more of an open invitation than the words Off…
Dec 10, 2024
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Jodi Sh. Doff
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I Wasn't Raised to Let You Die Alone
Somewhere, sometime, when I wasn’t busy talking, I realized the value of silence, of being quiet with someone, of communicating even if they can’t or…
Dec 3, 2024
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Jodi Sh. Doff
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I Wasn't Raised to Let You Die Alone
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November 2024
I Haven't Lost My Mind, Yet. Here's Why
A friend once said "Life isn't fair, you get what you get. What you do with it is the measure of your character." I miss him, and I get it. What I did…
Nov 24, 2024
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Jodi Sh. Doff
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I Haven't Lost My Mind, Yet. Here's Why
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What Happens to Me When Mom Dies?
A friend asked about my immediate plans for after Mom dies. It doesn’t seem like she ever will, but it got me thinking, what are my plans?
Nov 19, 2024
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Jodi Sh. Doff
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